Isn't life unfair?
Seeing people around whooping with laughs and you feel like you're the only one struggling. Something within you says you cannot make it the other day, because you are the one surrounded with problems. There you hold grudges against people who used to be your loved ones.
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It's right to feel this way. It's totally okay.
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Umair Haque says, "Suffering Isn’t Optional. Suffering is Inevitable."
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The very first step for any suffering is acceptance. Accept that you are stuck at something and the fact that you are no longer part of someone's life. People cannot always love you the way you love them. That breakup, the death of your beloved ones, the moments that are gone and the acceptance of these is the thing we find hard to do. Its hard because how can you believe something you believed your whole life in? That person, that moment, that love that is no longer there!
We find it so hard to deal with whatever we've been through, we suffer through a balloon of emotions. And to let it all out, cry and cry out your heart, feel it within your veins and every cell of your body and soon you'll become numb to feel the things, the losses and the pains.
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You cannot escape it as much as it hurts, so why not let it be? Go into it, live with the broken deformed parts. Maybe someday you won't be waiting for someone to come back and lift you high.
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Perhaps eventually you'll be jovial. Perhaps you'll be enough for yourself and you will be helping others getting out of their pain.
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It's time to heal
time to grieve
time to let go,
time to help yourself.
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- Abhimanyu Nirban
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